Should I end my affair with a married woman who has a young child?

You and your lover sound pretty selfish. Move on, but don’t forget about her, or you’ll make this mistake again, says Annalisa Barbieri

I am in love with a married woman who has a young child. We have been lovers for six years, having met before she got married or pregnant. Until recently I was content with us being just lovers. I chose non-monogamy as a lifestyle, having meaningful relations with more than one woman at a time in a transparent and conscious manner.

Around 16 months ago, she told me that I was the love of her life and that from the moment she met me she knew she wanted to be with me. I also started to spend more time with her and her child, and began to fall more deeply in love with her.

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